My Resilience Story
- Mary Wright
- Mar 9
- 3 min read
I only just found out this year 2024 that the mongrel I married is a covert narcissist. We were married from 1962 to 1997 before I found out that he was using coercive control and emotional abuse on me, after reading the book Emotional Blackmail by Dr Susan Forward which was presented by Oprah on TV.
I always knew there was something wrong with me but could not put my finger on it. I know now the red flags were there all the time and I did not see them, but certainly do now.
He destroyed everything I worked hard for, our house, our (HA HA) well-earned retirement fund from my IT work since 1977 now valued at $1.7 Million, also I lost my house to a vindictive stalking bitch and the corrupt cop would do nothing about it. He told me I had no right to lodge a complaint against my ex-husband.
I found out 2 years ago the real horror and bizarre life which had been inflicted on me.
On the 31 May 1999 after obtaining my mental health files 2 years ago I found a document where he contacted mental health and gave despicable information about me. All these years the 3 mental health units would not listen, believe or help me for 25 years, now 27 years/
I lodged 5 gross medical negligence claims about them because they put me on Olanzapine a powerful drug in 2002 and I became a ZOMBIE until 2022. My research on this drug took me to the world-famous Mayo clinic and the survivors of this drug said the same thing, they were ZOMBIES.
I now am maimed for life with a serious disability and am in serious pain continually. These complaints with abuse under care are applicable now in NZ and is getting wide news reports on this serious issue and the problems people are now facing like me because of this abuse.
My book written from the diary’s I kept from 1997 to 2024 A powerful Obsession by Mary Wright which is now listed on the internet and has HIT THE BIG TIME, even my website is
busy, sometimes I get the message come back later we are too busy to cope with all the traffic. HA HA.
My website address is marywrightnz.com My website still needs updating it is a long process to decided what to put on it.
I want to use my website to help other women in the same situation who do not know where to look for the appropriate help.
Covert Narcissistic Abuse is the worst type of abuse and you do not see the red flags until it is too late.
If you do a search for my book, you will find it listed on several Amazon sites including foreign sites, it is listed on the Arabian sites and with INGRAMSPARK.COM the company I listed it with. They will be the cheapest to buy my book from.
So that's where I am at now all these years from 1997 to 2024 of serious covert narcissist abuse trying to get vindication for all the serious crimes committed against me.
I am in the process of lodging my final complaint with the police complete with my book and documents from my mental health files to back up my book information.
I have a letter from the solicitor general who advised me to lodge the recent historical complaints, and she will consent to them.
Two other crucial documents I found in my mental health files, one a letter I wrote to a psychiatrist around 2000 asking for his help. I also stated or do I have to suffer the consequences of an incompetent diagnosis for the rest of my life. He obviously agreed with that statement because he wrote on the top of the letter to his secretary 'Please
file No Response' what a despicable attitude for someone who is supposed to help you.
The other document from the same unit stalked me as I went around one day obtaining evidence against the MONGREL, they documented all my movements including going to the corrupt cop, I was on this journey on the advice from my solicitor. The latter document I am sure was sent to me in error, certainly not something they would like me to read.
I will update my story as my issues are completed. I am sure you will learn from my resilient story and my website which will eventually, have plenty of information for all women worldwide.
Good luck and I hope you learn from my story. Attached are various writings on the subject of narcissistic abuse, etc.
Kind regards
Mary
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